"Life is a beach... enjoy the waves"

I feel like the answer to this question has changed so much over the years.  I am a 30 year old entrepreneur, wife and mother.   I have stuck to my roots of being a free spirit, marching to my own drum and loving the ocean.  Sometimes I get a little derailed on this path of life, but I always seem to come back to the ocean, come back to my drum, and my own way.  When I turned 30, I was sad that I was never going to be in my 20's again.  When I started out my 20's I was so excited to see what life had to offer... now in my 30's, I am still excited about life, but it is more about what I have to offer this world and what life I can make.  Here is to finding your atlas and your own drum to march to. 

who am I?